You're Not Heartbroken Over Them — You're Heartbroken Over Who You Thought They Were
Dearest beautiful people, From the stables of The Intimate Corner with Chi, Let's not pretend. Sometimes the hardest person to let go of... isn't the person standing in front of you. It's the version of them that lives in your head. You remember their kindness. Their attention. The way they made you feel in the beginning. The promises. The potential. The future you quietly built around them. And so you keep holding on. Not to who they are. But to who they used to be. Or who you hoped they would become. That's why letting go feels impossible. Because you're grieving two losses at once. The person. And the story. The story where it worked. The story where they changed. The story where everything eventually made sense. And maybe that's why you're stuck. Because reality keeps showing you one thing... while hope keeps whispering another. You see their actions. But you're still attached to their potential. You hear their silence. But you're still listeni...